And some very simple ways to reduce the distance!
1. It is forbidden to compare yourself with others!
Stop comparing your life with others! Always highlight each other’s positive points and try to minimize your negative points with each other’s help. Ask your wife what she is capable of. Remember that life together means a mutual partnership in all areas.
2⃣ Mind reading is prohibited!
If all the hypotheses were to be true, there would be no need for experiments and experiments! So put the negativity aside and stop giving them wings please. Yes, that’s right, if you called and your other party didn’t answer, the first hypothesis should not be that he is now. Rather, it is better to think to yourself that he is not in the right conditions to answer and let him tell you the reason in the right conditions. Practice not to attribute your impressions to others and do not think for them!
3. Express your wishes clearly and unambiguously!
Many couples believe that their spouse does not understand their situation. When you ask for more explanation, you realize that he expects the other party to find out exactly what he means from his facial expressions, tone of voice, or words. !!! Please don’t introduce special puzzles in your life together, which has its own story, and don’t consider your wife the hero of solving it. Expressing unambiguous requests is much easier than solving such puzzles because it reduces the distance.
4. Keep your relationship fresh!
In the first months of marriage, everything is new and exciting, and it is normal that after a while life seems simple and repetitive to you, so with the passage of time, it is better to learn how to inject that excitement and novelty into your life. Traveling, changing some duties and. It can help keep your relationship fresh.
5. Stop limiting yourself!
Remember that trust is the cornerstone of any relationship, so please don’t violate each other’s privacy in the name of love. Sometimes your partner can spend time with his friends or family, go to class or club and enjoy it. I assure you that by respecting each other’s privacy, you will not only not grow apart, but you will miss each other more. And in other words, you become closer to each other.
6. Don’t underestimate giving gifts to each other!
Don’t wait for a special event in your life calendar to give a gift, sometimes you can surprise him without any occasion and just because of your love for your wife and your life together.
7⃣ Don’t forget to beautify your appearance!
I can assure you that taking care of your appearance and grooming will not only make your wife happy, but also make you happy. And the fact is that this is perhaps one of the most important steps in preventing marital boredom. So by wearing beautiful clothes, make-up suitable for the face, using perfume and so on. Not only energize yourself, but also maintain your sex appeal.
This post is written by Sarabr8