Girls’ #emotional quagmire in relation to knowledge
There are many girls, who claim that they are not friends, but they have no problem with dating before marriage (for the purpose of marriage).
In fact, during dating, exactly the same behaviors and actions are performed as during friendship, and only the title has been changed.
Some time has passed since the relationship and they easily reject the situations that happen to them during this time because they hope that the relationship they are in is going to lead to marriage.
But after a few months or even one or two years of the relationship, they come to their senses and realize that they are still where they were on the first day, and no matter how much energy they put into the relationship, this relationship has not moved forward and it seems that nothing is going to happen in this relationship. and they feel indecisive little by little.
On the one hand, they got involved in an emotional relationship due to which they have lost many situations and due to the dependence caused by it, they cannot get over this relationship, on the other hand, nothing special happens and the other party does not take any action.
This type of relationship is called #emotional quagmire. You feel lonely in this relationship, you feel indecisive, you have no way back and no way forward, you have become highly dependent, you have lost your positions, you have many arguments and constantly fight. and you feel that you did not receive as much energy as you put in.
Because, if I tell you not to enter into a relationship where the opposite party has not taken an official action, you will not accept it and think that this prince who is in front of you now is different from the rest, so probably many of you will get stuck in this quagmire. The article is from the family planning channel, but at least if you think that this man is different from others, you should set a time for the relationship, for example, two months and then two months or the relationship will be official or the relationship will end.
⁉ You must say, is it possible to know someone’s relationship with two months?
Certainly, even with 50 years of married life, you cannot know your partner 100%, but are you supposed to get to know them completely at this stage?
Judge for yourself, except for the first two or three weeks, what new things have you discovered about the other party, and the knowledge that has been obtained, since the relationship is not official, is based on what the other party said, which I hope was honest.
After two months, you make the relationship official so that the acquaintance enters a new stage and the acquaintance continues with the family’s notification (engagement before marriage).
Your side may say, my dear, my conditions are not ready for now, let us be together for a while until my conditions are ready, if you are a smart girl, you will understand why a boy whose conditions are not ready has proposed marriage?
These guys are actually looking for the same friendship, but because you don’t accept the friendship relationship, they communicate with you under the pretext of marriage under the name of relationship to get to know each other better. These loved ones know very well that if they make a girl dependent, they can easily control her. As a result, they keep buying time for the relationship so that you slowly become dependent.
A boy who is eligible for marriage, intends to marry and is infatuated with you, knocks on any door to get to you faster, because the fear of losing you occupies his mind.
This post is written by Sara_b_h