Six disposable clothes that should be burned in the new year!
New Year is an opportunity to put on new clothes and discard the old ones
Clothes are not just suits and shirts. Clothes are our habits. It is possible to abandon old habits and old mindsets and experience new behaviors.
So go to the closet of your mindsets and habits. Open the door. Take a little distance from it and look at them yourself from a distance. Maybe these clothes should be thrown away:
»» Clothes waiting for luck
If we think that successful people have become successful because of luck, we are very wrong. It is enough to read the life of any entrepreneur, success is obtained from sweating and trying and failing. Luck is the opportunities that a ready and working mind hits the air and not just a waiting and sleepy person. In short, you should go to the house of luck and not the other way around.
»» The dress of extreme perfectionism
Extreme perfectionism means I have to achieve 100% in a subject/field/area, if I don’t I have to give it up. The new outfit can be: just one more step with firm steps.
»» Clothes for lowly and vulgar purposes
This habit of thinking makes us make small or vulgar goals. For example, if our goals are only home, degree and fame, there is a problem with a job. Human being is to have extra-individual and extra-family goals. Instead, substitute the habit of overarching goals. Be big and think globally. In today’s world where social networks are at our disposal, everything is ready for us to act globally.
»» False clothes
A lie destroys a person’s soul, you must be asking how? Lies create a gap between speech and belief. Its repetition causes this gap to spread to other elements of a person’s existence, including the gap between speech and action (which becomes betrayal and non-fulfillment of obligations), the gap between belief and speech (which becomes duplicity), and the gap between A lie is the beginning of the disintegration of the soul. Let’s put on the clothes of honesty.
»» Clothes to repeat others and imitate
Wearing this dress makes us more like others. Let’s not be ourselves but live others. You have to be bold. Tear off the clothes of imitation and decide for ourselves. God has created each of us in a unique and unrepeatable way.
»» Clothes of fear of failure
Failure does not come from falling. When we fail we never get up. Not taking risks is the biggest risk we can take. So in the new year, let’s define some daring experiences for ourselves. Even if we didn’t succeed in them, we managed to kill the fear of failure in ourselves.
»» and glasses are the weak point
In addition to those six clothes, glasses may be a weak point in your wardrobe, find them, break them and throw them away. We all have weaknesses. But paying attention to weaknesses makes us not see our strengths. Let the new year be the year of focusing on strengths. Ask what can I do with my strengths?
Let’s not forget, this is a human soul that must be renewed and remain renewed, otherwise the delivery of the year is nothing but the rotation of the days and the rotation of the earth. That’s why they said: Stay Nowruz because you are Nowruz! Do not skip this last sentence. Think for 30 seconds. Nowruz is God’s gift to us and drinking and staying fresh is our gift to him.
This post is written by A_Irandoust