Who should initiate sex? woman or man
Couples who stop having sex are usually because the man is slowing down. A man stops having sex for various reasons; But one of the most important reasons may be too much initiation of sex by the woman.
The constant initiation of sex by the woman will not only make her feel deprived, but also the man will gradually become disinterested in having sex with her. The majority of women don’t know that if they pursue men more than men pursue them, the man will eventually become passive. If sometimes playing a little and following the man has its own taste and the man understands that it is the right time to follow the woman, but repeating this action will turn off his interest in sex without the man realizing it.
When a woman takes too much responsibility for initiating sex, it causes a gradual decrease in a man’s motivation. The woman constantly shows her masculine side, so the man is pushed towards his feminine and receptive side. Such imbalance gradually erodes sexual passion in married life. Usually, a man doesn’t even understand what happened to his sexual passion; and what’s worse, he may mistakenly think that his wife is no longer attractive to him. Pay attention! A simple lack of balance can lead to a serious crisis. Therefore, by signaling and indirectly asking for sex, a woman can properly support the male part of her husband – the part that she longs for and fantasizes about being pursued by. It is interesting that men themselves don’t know that a woman’s persistence or her precociousness in sex can cause their motivation to decline. Some men like a woman’s persistence at first, but after a while they wonder why they are no longer attracted to that woman or why other women suddenly become more attractive to them.
A woman who is sexually promiscuous seems great at first. Maybe because in this way the man is safe from the danger of rejection and rejection; But this is not enough. A man has strayed from his nature, he has taken a wrong path, so he will see the damage. Women usually complain that they don’t want to take the initiative to start sex, but when they see a man waiting for the same thing, they feel compelled to do so.
My advice is that instead of initiating sex, the woman can focus on sending the message to the man that if he initiates sex, he is not in danger of being rejected. It is not a problem for a woman to start having sex every now and then. The problem starts when it continues to start. In this case, the man’s desire for sex becomes less and less, and over time, he loses his interest. The purpose of sending a message is to perform behaviors that show the woman’s readiness and indirectly invite the wife.
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