Scenario: Today, Mrs. Khoune S and Mr. Husband’s birthdays have been forgotten as usual! No, I did not remember. He didn’t buy a gift, not even a Hell Povuk!!!!
Mrs. Gharari: There are several options
Option 1: He says that I can’t bear it anymore! He goes and says to his wife: Are you a husband too?! My sister’s husband is a husband!! How long has it been since my wedding that I should be neglected by you?!! My sister’s husband rang the bell for her birthday! You spare a flower! May God kill me with this luck! Oh my God
Option 2: She looks wise and miserly (yes again!) and goes to the room and brings all her husband’s relatives in front of her eyes and treats them with kindness and care! Then he gets angry and sleeps
Option 3: The degree of pride is lower than the two above. He doesn’t say anything and prays for his life in his heart. The next day he talks to everyone and says sadly that we don’t have a chance, as if it was my birthday. I’m doing all this for his birthday, what then sir?! nothing
But a certain lady.
She knows that her husband’s reputation is her reputation
She knows that when she said yes, she actually said yes to protect her honor, to protect her reputation, to cover up her husband’s flaws and moral flaws.
She knows that her husband’s sensor may be sensitive for a month, but until next year’s birthday, it will be the same soup and the same bowl!
She knows that with her husband’s silence, she will never notice the damage done to his wife’s soul and feelings
So how many works?
1) With her special feminine mischievousness, she says from a month ago what a good month this month is / her husband says how?? He says nothing like this (he laughs mischievously), the next day he says that as we get closer to the middle of the month, it will get better and better like this (for example, your birthday is on the 15th of that month), probably your husband will remember it little by little. If it doesn’t happen, the day before his birthday, he says: Hey, I was thinking today, God, how much he misses you. / 25 years ago tomorrow, an angel sent you.
Believe me, your husband will laugh and probably make a move
2) She sees that her husband is not in the mood to buy a gift! On the other hand, he knows that the value of his heart is more than that of easily passing by his birthday. He spends half of the ideas he has learned on his own heart! Yes, it’s not funny, she goes to make a cake, writes love notes to herself, decorates the house, wears the elegant dress that she left only for the holy party, puts on her high-heeled shoes, which she bought a lot, goes out, and waits for Mr. Husband, who came in the evening. He turned off the lights, lit the surroundings with some candles, and came to the door with a cake. The husband wonders what’s going on???? He says that the most important news has been decided!!! My birthday looks like your body is celebrating for your soul!! My husband is invited to this party only. I assure you, he will make a move for the gift, but if he doesn’t, nothing will happen. why??? Because your husband built a safe house for you, your husband bought the flour you used to bake a cake, the clothes he bought for you, the shoes he bought for you. I don’t say whether it was his duty or not, but are you supposed to be happy together?! If the gift is for more happiness, then it’s fine, but if it’s not, at least don’t spoil your current happiness! It doesn’t matter if you don’t have double happiness, at least don’t destroy your happiness
I even recommend that you buy something that you have needed for a long time and give it as a gift and put it on the table
If you feel that your husband wants to know that everything is finished, just tell him that I bought this for myself
But if you feel a little ashamed that he didn’t buy you a gift, tell him quickly, I bought it with the money my husband gave me.
The next day, everyone he talked to said that we had a two-person party, I got a gift, you didn’t lie, you didn’t spoil your husband’s reputation, you didn’t ruin your best day.
This post is written by Sara_b_h