Continuation of the questions that you should not ask your wife in a marital relationship
6=Do you want to break up with me?
Repeatedly asking this question causes destruction
It becomes emotional. Most people do not ask this question to clarify
Rather, by raising this threat, they want to intensify the debate.
If you really want to break up, raise this issue and follow through. Otherwise, wait for the atmosphere to calm down a bit before asking the question.
If you really know that your wife wants to divorce you, tell her very simply and calmly:
Baby, give me a few moments to calm down. Ask him after you calm down a bit? how do you feel now what do you want to do What do you want from our relationship?
When you don’t ask these questions in a threatening manner, you give your partner the opportunity to give constructive answers to your questions. If you ask this question in the same initial state, no doubt he will not make any change in his decision, but if you ask these questions more easily, no doubt your wife will reconsider her decision and a better relationship will be established between you.
7-Are you sure you want to be with me?
Although complimenting and praising your spouse is very important in a healthy relationship, everyone is responsible for their own self-confidence and self-respect. Expressing interest in your partner is very important in a satisfying relationship. Make sure you love yourself and enjoy yourself. When you feel good about yourself, you can more easily evaluate whether your partner is satisfied with being with you or not.
8 and 9: Can I trust you? did you tell me the truth
Asking this question is not a good idea at all. Because firstly, it makes your wife defensive and secondly, you never trust the answer she gives. Because it’s stupid to ask someone that question when you don’t trust them.
If you trust him but he lies to you, don’t worry because the moon doesn’t stay behind the clouds and he can’t hide his lies from you forever. Eventually, one day, everything will be revealed.
10- When you knew that this matter upsets me, why did you bring it up?
In a good relationship, avoiding for the sake of comfort makes no sense. Both parties must be transparent if they want to have a successful relationship. If you want to make progress in your relationship, you need to talk about issues and problems and calm yourself down when faced with these conversations.
in the name of a woman
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This post is written by b_1300