10 ways to keep the heat of #marriage
Love yourself
Until each of you values himself, he cannot be useful to the other. Take care of yourself. Try to always live in such a way that you suffer the least pressure and stress. Your happiness is a factor that will make your wife feel satisfied and happy.
Be easy-going and humorous
With the start of #living-together, you should learn little by little that it is better to laugh at problems. If you used the logical ways that you knew to solve your problems, but still the problem was not solved, don’t be too hard. Be sure that your good manners and the passage of time are two factors that go hand in hand and make every impossible possible.
Get angry
Imagine your wife comes to you after a hard day’s work and starts complaining about the door and the wall and grumbling and nagging. It is better to let him empty himself, of course, as long as his behavior does not bother you. After your wife has finished speaking, you also have the opportunity to tell her about the problems you have faced during the day. In this way, you both hear and are heard. You can discuss things together more and in more detail after things are back to normal.
talk to each other
You and your wife are both adults. So share your needs and desires very clearly and logically. Both of you should know where and when your partner needs you. In addition, you should also know each other’s red lines, that is, when there is no need for your intervention in solving a problem, do not force yourself into the story.
Do not bother anyone
As much as possible, do not take the problems of your life outside the house. Try to solve all the problems by yourself. Finally, if you don’t get the result, just get help from experts and family advisors.
Know each other’s strengths and weaknesses
Most people don’t like to admit that others can do a certain job better than them, but after marriage, you have to accept the existence of some special talents in your spouse. Just as he has the duty to know your special abilities.
Express your love
You may have heard or read the importance of expressing your love to your spouse many times in various psychological articles, but how many people do you really know who do this every day? Get in the habit of following this advice because it is really simple and effective.
Compliment your spouse under any pretext
When your wife changes her clothes, tell her how lovely she is. Or, for example, say how much a certain color suits him. How well she cooks, how well she speaks or how beautifully she laughs.
You don’t always have to do things together
You and your partner both need some alone time. During these times, each of you can enjoy your favorite entertainment.
Celebrate important dates in your relationship
Use any occasion to celebrate. Date of first acquaintance, first date, courtship, marriage or anything else. This celebration can be very simple, romantic and so-called for two people.
Today’s woman
@Zaneh_Emroozi
This post is written by Sara_b_h