*I am now 4 years old and I say:*
*My father is the best!*
When I was 4 years old: My father is THE BEST
*I am now 6 years old:*
*My father knows all the people!*
When I was 6 years old: My father seems to know everyone
*And now I am 10 years old:*
*My father is great and unique!*
*But a little naughty!*
When I was 10 years old: My father is excellent but he is short tempered
*And now I am 12 years old:*
*When I was little, my father was very kind to me!*
When I was 12 years old: My father was nice when I was little
*And now I am 14 years old:*
*My father is slowly becoming more sensitive towards me!*
When I was 14 years old: My father started being too sensitive
*And now I am 16 years old:*
*My father cannot adapt to today’s generation!*
When I was 16 years old: My father can’t keep up with modern times
*And now I am 18 years old:*
*My father is getting stricter day by day!*
When I was 18 years old: My father is getting less tolerant as the days pass by
*And now I am 20 years old:*
*I can no longer tolerate my father’s behavior and his behavior is unforgivable*
*I wonder how my mother could bear him during this time*!
When I was 20 years old: It is too hard to forgive my father, how could my Mum stand him all these years
*And now I am 25 years old:*
*Whatever I do, my father gets stuck on me!*
When I was 25 years old: My father seems to be objecting to everything I do
*And now I am 30 years old:*
*I can hardly reach an understanding with my father,*
*I wonder! Does that mean that my grandfather suffered so much from my father when he was young?*
When I was 30 Yrs Old: Its very difficult to be in agreement with my father, I wonder if my Grandfather was troubled by my father when he was a youth
*And now I am 40 years old:*
*My father has raised me in life with many conditions and rules, and I must use the same method with my children*
When I was 40 years old: My father brought me up with a lot of discipline, I must do the same
*And now I am 45 years old:*
*I was surprised, how was my father able to raise all of us?*
When I was 45 years old: I am puzzled, how did my father manage to raise all of us
*And now I am 50 years old:*
*It is very difficult to control my children!!*
*Now I know how much suffering and hardship my father has endured for our education and care.*
When I was 50 Yrs Old: Its rather difficult to control my kids, how much did my father suffer for the sake of upbringing and protecting us
*And now I am 55 years old:*
My father was very far-sighted and forward-looking.
*And for Makhili’s happiness, he has plans for many things,*
*He was really unique and kind.*
When I was 55 years old: My father was far looking and had wide plans for us, he was gentle and outstanding.
*And now I am 60 years old:*
*My father is the best.*
When I became 60 years old: My father is
THE BEST
*This complete rotation took 56 years to reach its starting point again (4 years old):*
*my father was the best*
Note that it took 56 years to complete the cycle and return to the starting point. My father is THE BEST
*There is an opportunity to do good to our fathers and mothers and ask God Almighty to help our children treat us better than we treated our parents.*
Lets be good to our parents before its too late and pray to Allah that our own children will treat us better than the way we treated our parents.
*A message from a man who has experienced and lived through all these stages, and summarized it in a few sentences to be a lesson for others*
A message from a man who lived all these stages, and he summarized the story briefly
* For the health of all fathers in the life and happiness of the souls of deceased fathers
This post is written by Heydarifar1380r