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How to be with your wife in cyber space?
Also, try to give especially positive feedback to your wife’s post or message in the virtual world. For example, when he sends a poem in the group, be sure to comment, say that it was beautiful and send enough stickers and kiss and heart emojis.
Do not be sensitive and do not cause sensitivity
Reading each and every comment and mention and checking those who liked your wife’s post, as well as checking her phone will only create an annoying obsession in you. The constant check makes your mind start telling stories and accuse the person who commented on your wife three posts in a row of having a crush on her. Observe from afar, see, but don’t check constantly. If there is any inappropriate behavior either on the part of the wife or on the part of her followers, be sure to discuss the matter with her directly and without sarcasm. For example, you can easily say, “I feel that so-and-so has become too close to you for this and that reason, and this bothers me.” Also, avoid movements that make your wife sensitive. For example, if you are sensitive to someone, do not mention or comment on them.
In the virtual world, the priority is with your wife
Suppose you wake up in the morning and, unfortunately, your eyes have not yet opened properly and you reach for your phone. On the other hand, your fiance woke up 2 hours ago and is impatiently waiting for your good morning message. Or not at all, your wife left the house when you were sleeping. He is waiting for you to ask him. Or, for example, your wife or fiancee is waiting for you until you return from a trip, or your working hours, classes, and exams are over and they hear from you. But what do you do instead? You enter thousands of social networks and leave comments, kisses and hearts for 50 people, but you don’t send them messages. How would you feel if you were your wife? Just as you say good morning to your wife first thing in the morning, not your upstairs neighbor in the virtual world, the first priority is with your wife.
Do not chat with multiple people at the same time
You must have had this experience. That someone in the chat is not only with you and is probably doing a thousand other things at the same time. How does it make you feel? Please don’t do this to your wife. Do not chat with others or visit other social networks at the same time. If you have to do this, for example, you are stuck in a work group, be sure to inform and ask for permission.
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