Beloved, please note that most men do not buy gifts for the following reasons
1- They really remember the appropriate date (so remind them by reminding them of the time, marking your birthday on their due dates, highlighting the month, week and day of your birthday on the desktop calendar at home / Of course, I recommend that you do the same for their birthday so that they know in All occasions are important to you)
2- They know the date and the occasion, but they don’t know what to buy (so you can take a piece of paper and write down both the items you need in order, in the occasion you both know, for example, the other party needs an underwear, he wants a scarf , his wallet is damaged, his perfume is running out, etc.) because many men know that shopping without the other party’s presence is a waste of money! Because they say that I buy something that may not be needed
3- Your wife has lost the authority to buy for you. Did you jump once and say what is this? Did you go buy it?! He doesn’t like to buy for you anymore
So always, even if you don’t like it, compliment it and say wow, how beautiful it is, proudly show it to everyone and say that my husband bought it, and then try to show him more of your taste. For example, show him pictures of things you like.
4- Your wife thinks these things are ridiculous. In this case, you celebrate for yourself, when he sees how much you value yourself, he will slowly realize how important it is to you, at least he will be invited to a free and comfortable banquet!
Ladies, understand your wives a little. They are full of busy work. It is very rare for a man to have the opportunity to think, buy and surprise
The last point in the gift collection
In our culture, unfortunately, there are a lot of cumbersome customs and traditions!
Loved ones who are married are more likely to face these issues
From shopping for every Eid (12th birthday of the Imam, 12th Eid! + Marriage day of Hazrat Ali and Hazrat Zahra + Coronation of Imam Zaman + Eid al-Fitr + Eid al-Adha + Eid Ghadeer + Birthday of the Prophet + Mubaat + Eid Nowruz) to challah ceremonies and birthdays and holidays The girl and the day of the woman (Oh, another complication! One is a girl, the first is a woman!) Now, the chance of the groom to pass the entrance exam and graduate and defend his thesis, oh my God, what’s going on?!!!
Next, we will say a branch of flowers in a very oppressed way! What did we want?!
My sister, my friend, my dear! Each of them should get a flower branch for this occasion, in other words, the average is 7 thousand tomans, do you know how much it is?! Most of the time, gentlemen consider buying flowers equal to throwing money away!
I am not saying to be hopeless
But I say don’t expect it for any occasion
If your husband is stingy and does not spend money, try to explain your feelings to him
But if he buys but is not very involved in the occasion, don’t be too hard. It is enough that he is attentive to your needs
Do not compare your husband with anyone’s husband! Of course, if you don’t want your husband to compare you with another woman!!! Read it twice
This post is written by Sara_b_h