Family Guide Tour
Should we respect the opinions of others?
In some family groups, there are a series of people who have rigid religious beliefs and strictly adhere to them, and they try to guide others to the right path, that is, they constantly guide others. They warn you not to listen to music, observe hijab, etc.
In other words, this minority has the right to set the task for everyone!
The interesting thing is that if you do not pay attention to the recommendations of the family guidance patrol and stick to your own opinions, this behavior of yours will be considered disrespectful and these people will be upset and angry.
Probably, in this situation, several other people in the family will warn you to respect them, why? Because they are bigger. Or, for example, if there is a fight in the middle and family ties are broken, most people will blame you for not respecting the opinions of others!
This model of respect has made this minority group feel more powerful and have every right for themselves, and the interesting thing is that the more these people are respected, the more violent and disgusting their behavior becomes!
For example, when they enter any gathering, the majority of non-believers must observe hijab or turn off the music, and when they see that people respect their behavior, they gradually allow themselves to marry single people and have children. Assign homework for the rest!
This model of behavior is what Nasim Taleb calls minority rule in his book Skin in Game
Minority rule means a minority of two or three percent who are too bigoted and strict make decisions for the remaining 97 percent of the people and instill their opinions and thoughts into the whole society!
You should note that if you bow down in front of the family guidance patrol and listen to their warnings, the name of your behavior is not respect, but blackmail. You give a ransom and allow any insult and humiliation to the other party!
How is it that if someone chooses not to wear a hijab, he disrespects others, but someone who tries to impose his ideas on others by force is respected? How exactly??
But an important question: what can we do against the family guidance patrol?
The solution is one word: Naming
Be honorable and respect the opinion that you think is the most correct in your opinion!
If you step on your own opinions for the sake of respecting someone’s opinions, you are actually disrespecting your own opinions!
If someone gets upset with our coverage and thoughts, it’s not our problem, it’s the problem of the person who gets upset. If someone is worried that our actions will cause us to go to hell, that’s fine, we’re going to hell, so at least we’re not in the same place with this family guidance tour in another world!
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This post is written by Ha_vv