How to deal with a stubborn wife
Whenever they are going to make a decision on any issue, at the end someone says:
“Just what I said; I don’t want to hear any more objections” and the other answers:
“You have a habit of always pushing; Did you think that only you know everything?
Perhaps the reason for these wars and fights is that some spouses forget that they are each other’s life partners and that each of them has a share in life;
Someone always wants his words to be his words and his opinion and taste in priority; But what should the wife of such a person be like?
Practical solutions
Conditional consent
If you act in such a way that the other person feels that their opinion is accepted at all times, it will give them the impression that they always give the best opinion.
So say, “I respect your opinion, but it’s not mine.” Because I love you and my life is important to me and I don’t want to upset you, this time I accept your opinion.
Expressing personal desires
Don’t be neutral in making decisions and state your wish;
In this way, you show the other party that even if you respected his opinion, you did not do it unknowingly and that you have the right to your opinion.
Say, “Although my opinion is different, if I accept your opinion this time, it is because of the respect I have for you.” If your partner always tries to impose their opinion, when making a decision, say, “I’ve respected your opinion in the past, but this is my opinion and I have a right to vote, so I’m not agreeing with your opinion this time.”
Affectionate tone
Sometimes carelessness
Sometimes don’t care about his opinion so that he knows how disgusting this behavior is.
Of course, do not do this about important issues.
Apply your opinion on minor issues, sometimes without caring about his opinion, to gradually show him that the people around him also have their own opinions and that they have the right to apply their opinion in life.
The words you use to convince the other party must be thought out and correct. Try your words
do not complain, humiliate, insult or blame;
So don’t use these sentences:
“You have a habit of always insisting and asserting your opinion.”
“You thought you knew everything.”
“I tolerated you until now if I didn’t say anything” and…
This opinion is part of my right in married life and because I am interested in you, I would like you to respect me and accept my opinion.
If you don’t want to, that’s fine, but for once, respect my opinion.
If he is very angry, ask him to discuss your disagreement at a more appropriate and calm time.
Criticism skills
One of the skills that is very important in social and family relationships,
It is the correct way to express opposition and criticism. If your wife has a habit of insisting on her opinions, if you also bully and start fights and arguments,
A negative reaction is created on the other side and not only has no result, but worse consequences may occur.
This post is written by Sara_b_h