#how_to_identify_a_true_love?
Being in love and experiencing all those beautiful and enjoyable feelings is really wonderful; But when the other party loves you as much and returns all these feelings to you, everything becomes better and more beautiful. But how do you know if someone really loves you? Here are some ways to recognize pure and true love:
1- A person who really loves you, does not express his love only with his tongue and tries to show you how much he loves you with all his behavior.
For example, he always pays attention to you, smiles at you from across the room, brings you your plate and tries to pay special attention to you in any way. True love is not to be said, it is to be shown. So, to understand that a person really loves you, pay more attention to his behavior and actions than his words.
2- Someone who loves you is not jealous of you and never tries to upset you;
He will never make fun of you on purpose and will never make you sad and hurt you and will do whatever he can to make you happy. When someone truly loves you, they respect you and your feelings and allow you to have some privacy. He will not try to control you and will never treat you rudely or spitefully. A person in love is even willing to give up his own happiness in order to make his love happy.
3- A person who loves you wants the best for you and instead of thinking about his own personal benefit, he thinks about your benefit and does what is best for you. He gives you the freedom to make your own choices and supports your choices as much as he can. You can fully feel true love, because someone who loves you makes you feel that your life is much better than before.
4- If there is true love between you and the other person, you should feel happy.
In a real love relationship, you should not feel depressed and sad because the person who loves you makes you feel confident and calm. A person whose love is true will never make you feel insecure and will never hurt your self-esteem.
5- A person who really loves you will try to meet your needs before meeting his own needs.
He thinks about your happiness before he thinks about his own happiness, and if you are happy, that is enough for him and he will be happy about your happiness. When someone is in love with you, you are the most important person in their life (unless you have a child, in which case they should be the most important person to you). He enjoys being around you and he wants you to enjoy his company too.
This post is written by Sara_b_h