How will the first spectacular Eid be during engagement?
Special article during engagement and marriage
If you have just got engaged this year and it is the first Eid of Nowruz that you are going to visit your relatives and your spouse’s relatives with your fiancé, the following tips are recommended for you.
Be like this when meeting relatives with your fiancee
You must have already determined which of your relatives you are going to visit, so it is necessary if the person you are going to visit has certain morals and behavior such as: humor, quick temper, pride, self-confidence, informal behavior, cold behavior and so on. Be sure to discuss it with your fiance in advance. After entering the house, while introducing the family members of your relatives to your fiancé, preferably choose two seats next to each other
How should you behave with your fiancee when you are welcomed?
If they take a tray of drinks in front of you, it is better to first take a drink for your fiancee and place it for him (if you are sitting together), while eating fruit, it is better to peel an orange or cucumber for your fiance and offer it to him.
Be like this when others are talking
It doesn’t matter if you went to your relative’s house or your fiance’s relative, try to be social and don’t just watch and listen like a statue or a robot. Smile, shake your head, ask questions and don’t be silent. talk a lot
It is better to ask the members of your fiancee’s relatives that you have gone to their house about their status, such as education, job, etc. You must also show yourself and of course make a place in the hearts of your fiancee’s relatives. Don’t forget that praising you or your fiancee is for the benefit of both of you.
Do not behave childishly
You may behave strangely in private with your fiancee (usually men), but please don’t do such stunts in public, especially in front of your fiancee’s relatives.
If you are invited for lunch or dinner
As you did not hear on the chair, you should also be busy helping to prepare lunch and dinner, be warm
If you are going to a party
If you have gone to a party with your fiancee’s family or your own family, then you should not get up until the eldest of the family has gotten up, and if you have gone with your fiancee, it is better to coordinate the timing of the party with your fiancee before, for example, when your fiancee is still young. Don’t leave if the one who is busy eating has not finished it. For example, decide when it’s half an hour to finish whatever you’re going to eat and get ready to leave. Ask about leaving, if this question is from the lady to the gentleman, it will not look good either for the relatives of the groom’s family or for the relatives of the bride’s family.
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