If you do these 18 options in your married life, be sure that you will be the best wife.
1- Be patient; If we do not like the behavior of our spouse, it is better to inform him about his behavior with patience and reflection and under appropriate circumstances.
2- act rationally; Let’s examine the issues logically and correctly and consider the interests of common life instead of personal interests and judge impartially.
3- Let’s have low expectations; We should expect so much from our spouse that he can meet the expectations.
4 be positive; Let’s think more about the good behavior of our spouse and don’t forget the good aspects of life.
5- Be a good listener; When our spouse talks to us, we should look into his eyes as much as possible or show that we pay attention to his words by pointing and nodding.
6- Respect the personality of our spouse and respect each other with family and friends.
7- Be kind to each other; We should consider our spouse as a part of our being, tell her good deeds, wish her well and do our best to help her. With kindness, we can own each other’s hearts and establish a warm and intimate relationship.
8- pay attention to the needs of the spouse; Pleasant behavior combined with composure makes him express his wishes easily.
9- Be grateful; Appreciate our wife for fulfilling her duties, responsibilities and cooperation. We don’t need special words to express our gratitude!
10- Be a good role model; Let’s behave in such a way that we can be a good role model for our spouse and children.
11- Let’s put ourselves in the place of our spouse; Let’s see the world through his eyes and ask ourselves: “What would I do if I were in his place?”
12- Respect each other’s wishes and thoughts; Let’s not forget that marriage is a contract of cooperation and collaboration.
13- To console our spouse with beautiful sentences; A passionate sentence can extinguish a storm of anger and hatred and keep the foundation of life away from various dangers.
14- Tell your wife that I accept all the hardships in our life because of my love for you. Such sentences will encourage her.
15- To share the hardships and problems of the work environment with our spouse as much as necessary; A common mind makes the burden of problems lighter.
16- Do not command; We should not turn the house into a barracks, we should realize that the house is a center of love and affection, not a place of loneliness and violence.
17- Don’t put your finger on the weaknesses of your spouse; Every person may have weaknesses in different cases. Revealing and magnifying these weaknesses causes turbidity. We should never use weaknesses as a weapon to silence or defeat our spouse.
18- Do not reciprocate; Avoid retaliatory behavior and try to remind him of appropriate behavior instead of retaliating.
This post is written by Sara_b_h