Is vaginismus seen only in Russians?
no Vaginismus is divided into 2 categories in terms of its onset:
Primary vaginismus: It means that a person notices his impotence from the first time he starts having sex (usually in young Russians). And so far he has not had any successful relationship.
Secondary vaginismus: sometimes (rarely) due to problems such as surgery, chemotherapy, infections, marital problems with the spouse and other person is not able to have a relationship. These women have already been successful in establishing a relationship and now they have vaginismus due to a specific reason. We will not discuss this group in this article.
Misconceptions about vaginismus
* Women who have vaginismus are very cold in terms of libido!!
This sentence is wrong. They may be completely normal in terms of sexual desire and stimulation and have no problems in the stages of sexual foreplay. But in the last stage of sexual intercourse, i.e. penetration, they are unable.
* If we penetrate with more force and power, we will succeed!!
This sentence is also wrong and doing penetration with more intensity will only make the situation worse.
* Drinking alcohol and watching provocative movies and passing time automatically helps to treat vaginismus!!
This sentence is also wrong. Because women with vaginismus have enough libido and do not need to watch movies or consume alcohol. However, mentally, they need a series of exercises under the supervision of an expert.
* My wife’s penis or her body is big for me!!
This issue does not have much effect on the relationship. As I said, the vagina has folds that can be opened to whatever degree is necessary.
* Vaginismus has no treatment. Consultations are for pleasure!!
Fortunately, we see many cases that have been solved by following the advice of their doctor or consultant.
* All women with vaginismus have experienced sexual abuse in their childhood!!
No! This issue covers only a small percentage of the causes of vaginismus, and in fact, its main and important cause is still unknown.
* The only way to treat vaginismus is surgery!!
Now you know the muscle that covers the vagina and the folds of the vagina. Do you still think that the treatment of vaginismus is surgery?! So you realized that sudden and involuntary contraction of muscles is a mental problem and cannot be solved by surgery. In very rare cases, the hymen may be so thick that it will not go away no matter how hard both couples try. In these cases, surgery is sometimes necessary. Do not confuse this with vaginismus.
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