Jokers and mistresses
– Jokers are married men between 30 and 65 years old. Engineers or lawyers or company presidents or CEOs or owners of independent professions or government officials who, in addition to trying to earn money and stabilize their job position, to get more enjoyable or To compensate for their past deprivations, they are also looking for free mistresses.
Jokers often have committed and faithful wives, women whose quality of life is neither too good nor too bad.
Their life may not be very exciting, but they prefer stability to excitement.
-But mistresses: they are divorced women whose married life was neither very good nor very bad, but whatever it was, it had stability and rules and laws.
But they preferred having freedom and excitement to having stability and separated from their wives and now they have exposed themselves to be chosen by a powerful man!
-Jokers tell delicious lies like this in order to win the hearts of their lovers:
– I don’t love my wife. My wife has no femininity. I feel depressed with her because our marriage was forced. When the children grow up, and I settle her dowry money, I will soon divorce her and marry you!
– Newbie lovers love these lies and believe them and wait.
But veteran and experienced mistresses demand guarantees from jokers and put pressure on him
(Official or semi-official marriage. Naming a part of property or real estate)
– Experienced jokers avoid falling into such traps by making lies and false promises, but novice jokers, in order not to miss the opportunity, give one or two small points to their lover out of haste and compulsion. Unaware that with the passage of time, the lovers raise their expectations and demands and put the young joker under more pressure and threaten to reject and abandon the relationship.
– In any case, with the disclosure of the material demands of the lovers and the revelation of the secret and scandalous relationship in the families, the jokers who have enjoyed this relationship enough and it is not beneficial for them to continue it, are at the mercy of psychologists and legal lawyers. Of course, they become their own wives and by telling more funny lies than ever, they try to justify their actions and eliminate the feeling of guilt and regain credibility and trust in the minds of the society and their wives. And their wives, who often value stability in life above all What they prefer is their lies
(including that they will not betray them again) and continue their neither very good nor very bad life.
– And as for the mistresses, who have had deep wounds in their femininity since the beginning due to the lack of stability in their lives, this time, just by getting a little temporary financial and emotional gain, they once again lost a part of their feminine mental health from lost, they sink into depression more than before.
And to get rid of this deep depression, they have no choice but to expose themselves to another exciting relationship in a vicious circle.
(Written by: Reza Delpak, psychiatrist)
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