Mustafa Malekian
Anything that does not arise from within a person and reaches him from the outside is borrowed.
Anything that does not arise from within a person and reaches him from the outside is borrowed. In this case, a human being is exactly like a movie screen whose cinematograph device and film spreader are always on, and therefore every light and color seen on this screen is not the light and color of the screen itself. Only when it becomes clear what color the cinema screen is, they turn off the device.
We are like that in our life. Whenever I look at you, I see other people’s thoughts, not your own thoughts. Like a cinema screen, you throw any light without showing acceptance or rejection, without saying that I want a certain color and I don’t want this light. that you have not shone, shine
Rogers says: When a child is born, it rejects and accepts and weighs based on the real needs of its organism. For example, he eats a certain food to benefit his organism, and if he does not eat another food, it is because of the damage it causes to his organism. But slowly, from two and a half years onwards, another need emerges in the child, which is the need to be loved; That is, this need arises in the child that I be such that my mother, father, sisters and brothers and in short the people around me love me.
As soon as this need sprouts, the child is faced with two paths: on the one hand, the organism of the body tells him to eat this because it is good for me, on the other hand, if he eats, for example, his mother will be upset; That is, the satisfaction of the mother is at the cost of harming the organism, and the benefit of the organism is at the cost of angering the mother.
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