Peaceful coexistence in the style of Aghamiri and Ahlam
Mustafa Danandeh
The Instagram live market is hot during the Corona nights. Famous people talk to each other and people listen to their conversations and if the comments section is open, they participate in their discussions.
One of the hottest Instagram Lives related to Hassan Aghamiri’s conversation; Rouhani, who was disrobed by the ruling of the Clergy Court, was an Iranian female singer.
It’s surprising, isn’t it? What to do with an undressed cleric with a female singer Anver Abhi! Corona, what have you done to us?
For a society that doesn’t know how to talk to each other, this live should be surprising. They should put their fingers in their mouths and say, “Do we have it?” is it possible?”
Talking and arguing in Iranian society is strange. Intellectual, religious, average, uneducated society. does not have Speaking and listening are not in our dictionary. Our chicken always has one leg unless it falls from the sky.
When we are in a group with like-minded people, we cannot hear and talk properly, let alone in groups where there is consensus. See the same political groups. If the opponent says yogurt is white, they say no, you don’t have a rectum in your stomach, yogurt is black because you said it was white.
Hassan Aghamiri and Ahlam talked to each other without any problems. They may not think alike on many issues, but they respected each other and listened to each other’s opinions and expressed their opinions.
We are not all supposed to think alike or look alike. We can have different opinions but live together and listen to each other.
Ahlam was wearing a scarf to honor Hassan Aghamiri. This means a forward movement in Iranian society. This Iranian society includes all Iranians, even those who live outside the borders of Iran.
What was the result of all the tense years when we didn’t allow each other to talk and put cotton in our ears? Except separation and distance between people.
One of our most important problems is that we want to convince our other side in the conversation. If we enter into a conversation with the strategy of persuasion, we know from the beginning that the end will be failure and tension. We have to learn to say our opinions and the other side should also say their words.
Why do you think there is no end to the football totals? Because both sides are trying not to be convinced and not to accept the words of the other side.
When we are going to talk to each other, we should not think of ourselves as the absolute truth and the other party as complete disbelief. This way of thinking is not going anywhere. Two people with two different thoughts talk to each other without anyone trying to convince the other side.
Talking and listening teach us to live together peacefully. These days, even in many homes, family members cannot talk to each other and everyone is on their own. The father stands by his opinion and the child insists on his words.
Live Aghamiri and Ahlam was a clear example of a peaceful coexistence. An important event in Iranian society. An event that can be repeated. Repeat speaking and listening.
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