Question: No one wants to marry me and I am worried about my marriage age, what should I do?
The reason why someone is not in your heart is one or more of the following, first pay attention to see which one it is.
1. You have many suitors or you had before or you have many choices (because of your beauty, job and money or decency.).
2. Or do you think that you are someone too much and your evaluation of yourself is too high for marriage.
3. Or you are afraid of becoming independent and choosing and being alone
4. Or do you have people at home that you need to take care of and they need you financially and emotionally.
5. Or you don’t trust the opposite sex and you have heard many stories of their betrayal.
6. Or are you afraid of divorce and marital conflicts?
7 Or you compare all your suitors with your previous love.
8. Or do you have other imaginary goals in your head that you think are more important, such as continuing your education.
Finally, there is something, otherwise, the opposite sex is very good.
solution:
I suggest that if someone is not in your heart and your marriage age is passing, act on the following points.
1. Since the receivers in your heart are out of order for one or more of the above reasons and are not working well, you must somehow give your parents and confidants the authority to marry you more than other girls and boys.
2.Prioritize the proposal that, while you don’t mind it (now that the offer is welcome), the people around you will approve it more.
3. Choose a person who has the most similarities with you in terms of beauty, religion, social class, economy, being a fellow citizen, age and education.
4. And preferably, you should be in close contact with the suitor for a few months with the coordination of the families. And of course, do not expect that your desire to marry him will exceed 40, 50% and reach the peak.
5. And if possible, check the suitability of your personality with the help of experienced psychologists.
Anyway, the choice is scary and daunting and we have no choice but to choose.
Especially, some girls, due to the anxiety of choosing a spouse, put a restriction on marriage and reject anyone who comes to propose to them with an excuse. I tell them that if you can suppress your need for intimacy and marriage, in the next stages of life such as being reproductive, productive and integrated (as psychologists say in the remaining stages of Erikson’s development), you will suffer damage and erosion, problems A new thing that is not relevant to you now
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