#Symptoms_of_life_problems
⁉ When did your relationship with your wife have problems?
Warning signs of problems in the marital relationship
When do you say to yourself, my relationship with my wife is in trouble and I need help? Do you know how to find out when it is? Some people may become aware when their relationship with their spouse is so difficult that it is impossible to fix the relationship. If spouses seek help to mend their relationship at the right time, they have a better chance of improving, maintaining, and indeed, strengthening their relationship. If we wait for a long time and do not seek help, it is more likely that we will fall into the abyss of destructive patterns, hatred and resentment and lose all hope for change. In any case, some psychologists, by studying the lives of couples whose relationship is tense, have pointed out seven warning signs that indicate the existence of a problem in their relationship.
Seven warning signs in the relationship between spouses
1. Challenging with your spouse has become the rule rather than the exception in your life.
2. Empathetic understanding, comfort and convenience are rarely found in your life.
3. You don’t remember what it was about your partner that attracted you in the first place.
4. There is little or no intimacy in your relationship with your spouse: you separate your rooms, you have little interest in each other, and the hostility between you and your spouse is so prevalent that it makes intimacy impossible in your life.
5. You spend very little time together and it seems that your friends are more important to you than your spouse.
6. Reacting to situations has nothing to do with your disagreements with your spouse; For example, you feel that your spouse doesn’t like you because he doesn’t like the food you cooked.
7. You feel helpless and helpless to change anything in your life. Feelings of anger, hatred, sadness and despair are the dominant emotions in you.
If you experience any or all of these feelings in your life, know that:
Your relationship with your spouse is in trouble and it won’t take long that you will witness more serious problems such as betrayal;
Jealousies will increase;
The silence between you and your spouse will be longer;
Sometimes even verbal and physical harassment and abuse will happen between you.
Prevention of reaching the crisis point
Before your relationship reaches a tipping point, pay attention to these seven warning signs and do the following before it’s too late:
1. Go to a psychologist or counselor.
2. Read practical and reliable books on appropriate and positive communication.
Note that without help, your relationship with your spouse will never improve over time. As soon as a certain amount of feelings of hatred and annoyance, anger and hostility dominate your life, it will worsen your relationship with your spouse; So, knowing that your relationship has a problem and taking appropriate and immediate action, it is necessary to avoid reaching a critical point in the relationship.
This post is written by b_1300