The reason for #masturbation of married men despite having a wife.
Why do married men masturbate despite having a wife?
The most important factor in self-satisfaction can be sexual fantasy (mental thinking and visualization of a close image in the creative power of the mind), if a man enjoys certain actions in sexual relations, only a part of this pleasure is related to his physical reactions, a large percentage of it is controlled by his psyche. For example, in the sexual fantasy of most men, it is pleasurable for men to pour semen on parts of their wife’s body, while physically the exit of semen is pleasurable, but the place where it is spilled does not affect its pleasurableness from a physical point of view, but from a psychological point of view For a man, this movement is pleasurable. In the sexual instinct, the two processes of the body and the mind go step by step, and it is interesting to know that sometimes its mental and mental strength is several times its physical and physical strength. As far as possible, men can stimulate and ejaculate by seeing a stimulating image without physical action and with the help of their psychic power. So it may be that one of the most important reasons for the self-gratification of married men is the fact that their wives are not willing to do some of the actions that the man has included in his sexual fantasy list. In this case, the man may be physically satisfied, but His psychological and mental needs are not met, so he reaches that point with imagery and the power of visualization. This issue is very important for men and can even be considered as one of the reasons for their betrayals, note that sexual fantasy is formed over time and it is rarely possible to change it. Usually, most of the married men who are addicted to self-gratification have also performed that act before marriage, so because in self-gratification, the control of pressure and imagination is in the hands of the individual, in this case, the individual is not able to be satisfied with the sexual relationship with his wife.
Usually, men hide their satisfaction from their wives, this is not a worthy act, whether before or after marriage.
What is the treatment?
We Iranians have learned to always think about treatment, but I want to advise you that it is better to think about prevention. Before getting married, ask other questions about sexual fantasies.
Sexual fantasy is the actions that you imagine you will enjoy more, some people may react so highly to this fantasy that they will never be satisfied outside of it. You can’t imagine and you might say, well, what pleasure can this act have for him? But in response, I would say that the power of sexual fantasy or fetish is a psychological and mental power and you should never make fun of it, on the contrary, you should respect it.
I am sorry that many men and women do not express their needs to their spouses, please note that the close relationship is at the top of the marital relationship pyramid and has a direct and indirect subconscious effect on other people’s behaviors, actions and reactions. So respect your wife’s sexual fantasy and do it willingly, you will surely see the effect yourself.
be happy
This post is written by Sara_b_h