What is dolphin thinking?
How can we find a solution in social communication that is satisfactory for all parties and brings us to an understanding?
In general, humans are divided into 3 classes like sea creatures:
1. carp fish
2. sharks
3. Dolphins
First category:
carp fish
which are always sacrificial fish; Because they are eaten by other fish.
Some people are also like that; More or less, depending on the case, they become victims of this or that thing, this or that issue, this or that person, and they may even become victims of their wrong relationships and negative thoughts.
The second category:
sharks
by method (winner-loser)
In order for me to win, you must be a loser!
For sharks, any kind of fish is an enemy and a potential meal.
Maybe we have also played this role, or at least we have come across human sharks; Like employees who fight each other to reach high positions.
The third category:
Dolphins
They are another type of marine animals.
These intelligent aquatic mammals have a spirit of cooperation and have chosen a win-win method in their communication.
Dolphin has no shortage and wants to share everything with everyone.
If a dolphin is injured, 4 other dolphins will accompany him to reach the group.
In San Diego, researchers released 95 sharks and 5 dolphins in a large pool for a week and studied their behavior.
First, the sharks attacked each other and many of them were destroyed in this attack, then they attacked the dolphins.
The dolphins just wanted to play with them, but the sharks kept attacking them.
Eventually, the dolphins slowly surrounded the sharks, and when one of the sharks attacked, they would hit its back spine or ribs and break them.
In this way, the sharks were killed one after another.
After one week, 95 dead sharks and 5 live dolphins were seen living together in the pool.
In a shark world, to win; Others must either die or lose.
But in the world of dolphins, there is flexibility, and Ser Shar is one of the most fruitful diagnoses.
Conclusion:
We would have a more beautiful world if we humans also had such beautiful thinking;
Dolphin thinking means that:
Let’s think about others besides ourselves;
identify with others when problems occur;
Be happy with the happiness of others;
And we also feel pain from the discomfort and pain of others;
to empathize with others;
Let’s work together for success.
Instead of stepping on someone to climb the ladder of promotion, take another’s hand and pull it up with us.
Cooperation, empathy, companionship, like-mindedness and all the things we have done to help ourselves and others.
So let’s reflect a little
This post is written by FaraDanesh1