What words should we use during sex? (Especially for couples)
Maybe in the first encounter, using sensual words in emotional words and later in the intimacy of the couple, is not very pleasant from the point of view of your other party, and maybe he will have a problem with this kind of words, even in the future.
You are always afraid that suddenly these words will flow in your language during the first meeting and as a result, you will disgrace yourself and lose all your original image in the eyes of the other party.
Here we have discussed the points that by observing them, you will learn the correct and timely use of these words in emotional and sexual relations with your spouse:
‼ Tip: To begin with, the requirement to use these words is the passage of time: it is pleasant to say them after establishing an emotional and romantic feeling, not before! So let a few mornings pass!!
But how should these words be used in a timely and correct way?
1- Use familiar and current expressions in your words.
If you want to say the exact same words that we have seen in the movies, it sounds very ridiculous. Maybe you think that using these words requires special skills.
But the truth is that this way of speaking is the same word that we can easily say and we can handle it very well!
These words arise from within us, and we have to choose the way to express them according to our state of mind.
2- Know the rhythm of your voice.
Everyone knows what tone to say these words, it depends on you, you can say it with a loud and romantic voice, and some with a change in the tone of voice, and in some cases, slowly and whispering. Use the words.
Depending on the personality of each person, in some cases, the way these words are spoken is the reflection of that person’s daily speech, and in others it is completely different.
Maybe during your speech, use all the moods of the tone of voice to create more excitement in pronouncing the words so that the other person cannot guess your mood and next word at all, and as a result, he will always wait for your next word in an excited state. .
3- Increase the number of these words in your memory.
However, we try to prevent the use of profanity.
But changing the way we speak to our spouse is an opportunity to take ourselves out of the literary framework of speaking at the right time.
We must be so strong in terms of these words that we do not use clinical words during this type of speech (such as sexual instruments and other obscene words).
If you have poor vocabulary in this field, you can increase your knowledge through educational books and internet sites, or videos in this field. (Although the perception of these films is not very effective and reliable)
4- Practice alone.
Carol Quinn, the author of the book “The Excitement of Sensual Feelings” has always recommended that you repeat sensual words to yourself alone so that you can express them during intimacy with your partner.
Just by repeating these words in your mind, you will be able to say them out loud later.
This post is written by Sara_b_h