Why do spouses cheat on each other?
When we say wife, it includes both men and women, both of them may cheat. Betrayal has many reasons, the most important of which is mentioned:
One of the causes of infidelity is lack, yes, they have a lack, that is, their spouse leaves them with a lack, such as: lack of attention, lack of approval, lack of appropriate behavior, lack of happy mood, lack of satisfying sex, lack of emotional relationships, lack of love, lack of a pleasant companion, lack of presence and Active presence in the home and any lack that makes a woman or man empty and empty, who goes to someone who will fix this lack to balance his feelings.
Sometimes the reason for infidelity is not lack, the wife gives up, everyone is jealous of having such a wife, so if there is nothing lacking in life and sex, is she cheating? Yes, he has a disease, but his disease is not incurable, it is treatable. The most important diseases that lead a person to cheating despite being married are:
The disease of depression and anxiety, the disease of mood disorder, especially when their mood goes towards euphoria, i.e. manic
These people go to another person to balance their brain’s serotonin and dopamine. These people are only with their lover for three to four months, at the most six months, because after that, serotonin and dopamine drop again and they start fighting and fighting, that’s why these people cheat frequently. They like the relationship first and say that it hits us immediately, but it doesn’t hit them, they feel bad again and look for new excitement.
Some people are just manic, that is, maniacs. These people have a lot of sexual excesses, for example, cross sex, threesome sex, group sex, and sex with animals. In short, their betrayals are of this category, so illness is also a reason that must be treated
Another reason for betrayal is addiction to betrayal, exactly the same as addicts, they quit many times and swear they will not do such a thing again, and it doesn’t take long for someone else to come in the middle of these people, it doesn’t matter if they are married or single. This case is the same as the lowering of the head that was explained above
The next reason for infidelity is seeking diversity, which means that a person gets tired of one person very quickly, wants a new look, wants a new behavior, wants a new voice.
An important reason for infidelity is the lack of sexual and physical attraction to one’s wife. These people are married in the traditional way and matchmaking, and the person has no sexual and physical attraction from the beginning, and telling him that when you hug him, your feelings will wake up, but it won’t wake up for the rest of your life, and this attraction must arise in the first to third meetings. If he doesn’t come, it’s not possible anymore, and this is why these people cheat
Another reason for early marriage is that a person has not matured according to his own words and now wants to experience relationships with others under the shadow of marriage. Marriage under the age of 25 is not good because the person’s criteria for choosing a spouse have not been established.
Anyway, betrayal has many reasons and the reason for betrayal must be found in order to find a solution
But the solution of the law of attraction is that the one who sees betrayal sends his vibration to the world and has to change his vibrations so that the result he gets is different.
This post is written by Sara_b_h